When it comes to sex, it is a private matter.It is so private that most don't talk about it. When there are problems in the bedroom, it stays there. There are times men talk about what happened in the bedroom with other guys but it is usually what they boast.
Guys tend to keep it to themselves because most think that it is not manly to talk about their problems in bed. That is why conservative hypocrites doesn't want to implement sex education but they do not have a solution to their problems.
Among couples regardless of age, problems like these occurs and most of the times, it is because of premature ejaculation or PE to make it discreet. I was privileged that during my sixth grade when my open-minded teacher had a man-to-man talk about it among the male students.
During my collegiate studies, we have classes in psychology that discusses these matters. I even have gender sensitivity and adolescent sexuality workshops as part of our counselling program for the youth.
Which is why it is important to have counselling sessions among the couples. When I attended the launch for PE called Happy Wife, Happy Life; I would never imagined how relevant this event for me if ever I am ready to get hitched.
We started the event answering a survey. The survey will help us guided in the discussion after the results. The hot topic was first discussed by Dr, Dennis Serrano. He started orienting us what is Premature Ejaculation. After Dr. Serrano, popular relationship consultant Dr, Margarita Holmes discussed the effects of PE in the relationship. I admit I still don't know since I haven't been in a committing relationship before but learning and knowing about it is a good start.
This reminded me of the movie Bliss. It is not a pornographic movie but the story is about making relationships lasts longer and not just in the bedroom. Menarini Group Philippines is starting 2015 with the campaign Happy Wife, Happy Life this 2015. It is true that relationships are hard but it takes two people to make it work and it also requires trust and communication. PE does not affect men, it also affect the partner and the relationship.
If you are afraid to to go to a doctor/specialist to consult about PE in person, you can consult a doctor online via http://controlpe.ph/. For more updates about this advocacy, follow this blog or like L.E.N.S.blogs and Control PE on Facebook.
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